*******THIS POST CONTAINS SPOILERS FOR ANYONE WHO HAS NOT FINISHED PATHS OF ALIR******
My first blog post (in 2014) on the topic of Isabel and Pelas in Paths of Alir generally concerned a miscommunication made in the original text which has now long been corrected. That post doesn’t really address the context of these two characters’ interaction.
For me, this is an old topic that (to be honest) I’m a little tired of discussing. Yet for many readers just working their way through the series, the conflict is fresh in their hearts. So to those of you who are coming to my blog because you’re newly upset about Isabel, Pelas and Ean, this post is for you.
While the majority of the communications I receive daily are from readers who adore my series and generally understand Isabel’s choice within the context of the game, I do occasionally receive emails or comments from readers who feel betrayed, not just by Isabel but by me as the author. How could I ruin their favorite characters? How dare I do such a thing!
If you’re one of those readers/Audible listeners, let me say in earnest that I am very sorry these scenes upset you. I suggest putting down the book and getting a little space from the story.
Some of us have a deep-seated turmoil surrounding the topic of betrayal, while others are completely indifferent to the idea of it. It is impossible to know what readers will be able to easily get through the scenes with Isabel and Pelas and which readers will have an unpredictably heated emotional response to them. If you are one of the latter, again, I am very sorry those scenes upset you.
Obviously, I cannot tell a good story if I’m perpetually afraid of creating a bad effect on some readers. As the possibility is so vast, I wouldn’t be able to write anything at all.
As an author writing allegorical fantasy, I have to boldly go wherever the story takes me. Sometimes I don’t even like where it’s heading, but there is an integrity to this work that I can’t compromise. That means that when the story seems to be heading towards an uncomfortable truth or a difficult interaction, it is my duty to see it through, even if it personally makes me cry; even if it means making some readers mad at me.
I’m going to address several of the comments I’ve gotten over the years here. My intention with this post is to try to help you understand why I made the choices I made with these characters. I’m not really trying to open a debate about it. The book is written. It’s not going to change. I made my choices and I would do it again.
With this post, I’m only hoping to help you understand why I chose to take those characters in this direction, as sometimes at least understanding it can help ease the sting. I would also hope to invite you to see a different point of view—after all, seeing different points of view is the entire purpose of my series.
But I have to warn you that if you’re coming to my blog with a fixed-in-stone viewpoint of how wrong I am to have written those scenes, and you have no interest in understanding these characters’ choices, in discussing the ethical/moral conflict, in viewing the bigger picture, then I fear there is nothing I can say to help you, sadly, except, thank you for reading thus far. I bid you adieu and wish you well.
If you’re of the mindset that the series is ruined for you by these two characters’ actions and you don’t want to read anymore, I truly understand. Thank you for purchasing three books from me. I appreciate you taking the time to read them. I hope we’ve had a nice time together and I wish you the best in your future reading endeavors.
For those of you interested in learning the viewpoint from which I wrote those scenes, I humbly invite you to read on.
Point #1: Please remember this is fiction, people.
I get that you’re invested in these characters. I wouldn’t be doing my job if you weren’t. I was invested in Michael Curry when Lasher drowned him in a pool in Anne Rice’s The Witching Hour. I was so upset that it took me days to stop thinking about it, and it was years before the next book came out to see if he survived. I was so traumatized that for the next book of hers I read (in a different series) I was on pins and needles the entire time, expecting her to kill off someone else important to me. I could barely get through it.
But I did—eventually. Ultimately, I reminded myself this was just fiction. Michael wasn’t really drowned in a pool. Michael didn’t really exist. I read the rest of the series, and I forgave her.
I get that I’ve made these characters real. That’s my job as the artist. Your emotional investment is your contribution to my art form. But don’t forget the primary understood agreement between us: this is fiction.
Point #2: It upsets me on a personal level to hear a reader say, “Pelas has claimed Isabel as his own now.”
Really? He’s claimed her? Is she a piece of property? A farm animal? Did he purchase her at auction with the papers of providence to prove his ownership?
No woman can be a man’s property. No man can be a woman’s property. People do not own other people. We are together in marital contracts or other troths through mutual agreement. Even the law cannot keep two people together once each party has decided to no longer hold that agreement in place.
Betrayal as a concept first requires agreement. Most of us are thinking of Isabel and Ean’s partnership in the context of a traditional marriage. But theirs was far from a traditional marriage. As Ean discovers as he learns more of Arion in book four, so also does he discover that his ‘marital’ agreement with Isabel was that the game always came first.
This is not in any way saying the end justifies the means. I’m not trying to justify Isabel’s choices at all, in fact. The whole point of the scene was to present an ethical right that was also obviously a moral wrong. I wanted my readers to look at that paradox, to dissect it for themselves, to think of how it applies to life, to debate and discuss and argue both sides.
Objectively, Isabel made the ethical choice to achieve the greatest good for the greatest number, even if it was also an immoral choice by our own established societal and religious codes of conduct.
Point #3: Are we beings or are we bodies?
This one is a kicker. If your own spiritual philosophy begins and ends with the idea that man came from mud, that all we are is a conglomeration of organisms working in concert, carbon-oxygen engines running a meat body…if this is all you think we are, you will hit up against fundamental disagreements in reading my series.
Because I don’t think we are just hunks of meat. I don’t believe our decisions are made by brain tissue or that our memories are stored in cells. I don’t think we are our bodies any more than we are the cars we drive. And these beliefs are echoed in my story.
Perhaps we all put too much importance on the bodies we occupy. The HOLY SANCTITY of the female vagina! We’re going to judge a being based on someone putting a body part into a portion of their reproductive anatomy, and we’re going to say a man owns a woman because of having access to that portion of her body?
In fundamentalist Islamic states, women are stoned for being raped.
If we think we are the bodies we occupy, something terrible happening to that body is a true violation. But if we believe that the body is just one of many shells to be had—which is how Isabel views it—then something terrible happening to that body is less consequential. Because there is always another shell. Because in that case, it didn’t happen to us any more than denting our car happened to us.
If we are spiritual beings, the essence of us is sacred and inviolable, no matter what is done to the shell containing that spirit. This is not in any way to imply that someone who has undergone some kind of violation should somehow just get over it. Their trauma is undoubtedly real. I’m only attempting here to present a philosophical viewpoint with which we can look at the situation with Isabel, and possibly towards situations in our own lives in which this idea might helpfully apply.
I know this is not every reader’s world view, but it is a valuable one to at least take a look at. I wanted to explore this idea of are we beings or are we bodies? in more depth in book four, so it was important to set up reasons to pose the question in book three.
Point #4. Seeing the bigger picture.
There is another reason I wrote the scenes as I did. It’s the same question that is echoed in Björn’s choices to let people think of him as a traitor when in fact he’s most devoted to saving the realm.
When we can’t see the bigger picture, when we can’t get past the idea of ‘one life, one lifetime,’ our choices can be ethically shortsighted. The optimum solution would be ‘the greatest good for the greatest number,’ but to really be considered ethical, a choice has to embrace a long, rational view far into the future in order to determine its cumulative effect.
I knew my readers would look at Isabel’s decision and think it was immoral—it was!—but I also wanted them to see that there was a bigger game in play and hopefully be able to at least see why she made the choice she made, even if they don’t agree with those choices. Sometimes we are faced with choices that are ethically right and morally wrong in small or large ways. Those can be difficult morasses to make our way through.
In life, we have a tendency to get mired in a single moment. We just can’t get past something that happened. We can’t forgive. We can’t forget. Some terrible wrong has been perpetrated against us!
Granted. It was terrible.
Sometimes this kind of thing ruins us for decades. We become true victims.
This event with Isabel and its effect on both her and Ean is meant to address this kind of conflict that we face in real life.
Things happen, and we have every right to be angry about them. But if we can’t get past them, if we insist on holding that past moment in the present forever as a declaration of some horrid wrong that was done to us, if we can’t move on, then our lives are ruined.
We can make a lot of labels and banners to justify our righteous fury, and that’s all fine. But know also that in many cases there is a bigger picture that could be seen, and in taking the longer view, the wider view, we can get past the wrongs that were done to us. We become the bigger person, not the lesser one—made less by holding up perpetually the banners of all of the bad things that have happened to us.
This is another message of Isabel and Ean’s conflict, and in my view, it is an important message. We can overcome the conflict and grow to be better people instead of carrying the banners of our injury and indignation forevermore.
Point #5: Apparently, with these scenes, I have irreparably emasculated Ean.
Hmm.
Picking up the thread from point #4, we can either be victims of things that happen to us in our lives, or we can choose to view life from a place of causation and responsibility. Shouting our own victimization simply perpetuates it. Finding a place of responsibility enables further causative action.
In the words of Rene Descartes, “Except our own thoughts, there is nothing absolutely in our power.”
Emasculation as it applies here (that is, metaphorically) is an idea. It isn’t a state of being. It doesn’t follow a scientific cause and effect like the laws of inertia. It is a feeling. We are making a decision to feel some way. Ultimately “being emasculated” requires a man’s own agreement. No matter what others think, or even what they say, no one can emasculate another man short of actually slicing off his genitals.
If we feel emasculated by an action, we have to realize it is our choice to feel that way. We don’t suddenly enter into this immutable state of being because someone else did something to us. We are choosing to let others make us feel less than we are. Perhaps circumstances or others cause us to feel that way initially, but we’re still choosing to feel that way. We create our own emotions. No one is programming us. We have to decide to feel something.
Which means, ultimately, in the context of emasculation, that we’re agreeing with the efforts of others to lessen us. Or we’re lessening ourselves through our own critical and invalidating thoughts. Our insecurity is what is emasculating us, not someone else’s actions.
The American philosopher L. Ron Hubbard wisely wrote, “Nobody can do anything to you but you.”
Ean is understandably hurt and feels betrayed by Isabel’s choices. He has the choice of agreeing to be a victim of her actions, in which he can carry that banner around perpetually (which he does for a bit through the beginning of book four), or he can choose to rise above the things done to him, decide to find his own responsibility for what occurred and move past it. Which he also does do.
So who is emasculating Ean here? I’m sorry to be so blunt, but the true answer is: you are.
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Well…now you know where I stand on these scenes. Hopefully this answers the question of “How could I have done this to these characters? There was no reason for it!” and the occasional accusation of, “It wasn’t even necessary, as Pelas was already committed to Tanis!”
Actually, there was great reason for these characters to face this conflict. Because I’m writing allegorical fantasy—philosophical fantasy, if you will—not just fluff fiction. Not that there is anything wrong with fluff fiction. I adore reading it, but it’s not what I write. And the opportunity to raise these questions and bring to light these kind of conflicts so they can be better inspected is critically important on a philosophical level.
Feel free to share your thoughts with me below, but please understand that I am not going to debate my decisions with you. I’ve made my choices and moved on through two more books. So have Ean and Isabel.
Please know also that I do read your responses. You’re not communicating into a vacuum as may be the case on other authors’ sites. Whatever you write to me, you’re saying to my face, about my life’s work. I’ve developed a tough shell, but for manners’ sake, please keep this in mind.
It’s my hope you’ll continue the series to better see how these characters come to terms with what happened, but if you decide to move on altogether, I understand.
Thank you again for reading this far.
When I got book 3 on audible and listened to this part it was quite shocking in terms of what was happening, especially if you had invested your feelings and emotions on the whole isabel/ean dynamic. When thinking further on what was written though, my viewpoint changed. While yes, there are other ways that Pelas’ issue could have been solved, I think this one really does make the story move forward in terms of Ean and Isabel both having their part in the ultimate game. Let’s be real Ean/Arian was gone for 300 years and in terms of immortal beings and multiple lives, their can be a variety of “betrayals”. Though to sum it up, I don’t think, as a new reader that this was as bad as many people chock it up to be. The stories are vast at the end of the day and the way many of our characters have to go through in their own story is often filled with a lot of roadblocks. There’s many series that go further, as you mentioned in the 2014 post, and there’s many that don’t delve into any struggle and keep the characters static. Oftentimes, these changes make our characters go through whats called development and people just need to learn to deal with that aspect of the literature. Can’t wait for book 4 and 5!!! Still waiting on that audible pre-order for 5….
Hi Melissa,
Firstly, as a fan, I truly appreciate the lengths you go to in order to communicate with your readers.
As a reader (OK, multiple rereader) the scene made me feel uncomfortable. Though the context was different, I didn’t really see much difference in what Isabel did and the hero/heroine who lays down their life for the greater good. I cried as much for Isabel as I have for other characters who have gone through traumatic events.
In reading onto Kingdom Blades, I was comforted that while she felt regret for the hurt it had caused, she didn’t let the events define her as a person. That for me is true strength of character. In an era where fluidity, sexuality and gender are common talking points, I think we all need to explore the question as to whether we are ‘beings or bodies’. In thinking through such issues for ourselves, I hope we can all become a little more compassionate towards one another.
Thank-you for prodding us to consider such questions!
I think I take your overall points well. You have the right to tell your story without worrying about every effect that comes from it. I was emotionally invested in the scene, but I didn’t stop listening because of it.
I’d quibble slightly with the dichotomy that you’ve set up in point 3, though. The options aren’t that we’re either only a body or only a spirit. Another option is that we’re both spiritual and physical, so damage to one hurts the other. The fifth paragraph seems to dismiss the damage, both physical and spiritual, that can be done through physical trauma. It comes across as a dismissal of the seriousness of trauma of sexual abuse or violence. It seems like you’re saying that people should just get over it, because it was only their body. I’m much more disappointed by this impression than anything about the scene in the books.
You’re absolutely right about point 3, and that was definitely not my intention. Sometimes in trying to make a singular point it’s easy to overlook broader situations or to appear to be including all such situations generally when in fact you’re only speaking specifically to one. I certainly in no way would dismiss the personal tragedies that others have wrongfully undergone.
I think in truth there can be many answers to the question of who are we really? I’m only trying to forward one possible answer for my readers’ evaluation.
Hi Melissa.
The gravity of the decision Isabel had the strength to make gave me even more respect for her as a person. I think the scene was so important to understanding Isabel and the game. And, Ean’s character development after this event was crucial to the story.
I feel weirdly obliged to say I’m sorry that you even had to make points 4 and 5..
The readers who expressed those concerns are missing SO MUCH about the story and the characters, and likely have individual issues with their own relationships and sexual viewpoints they need to work out.
I’m on board 1000% with your decision, but I love that you would stand behind this scene even if the entire fan base pushed against you. It gives me immense respect for you as an artist and as a person. I look forward to all of the tough artistic decisions you will make in the future.
Thank you so much, Ian. It’s always going to be a challenge to communicate the same message to everyone. People are operating on so many different wavelengths with wildly varied emotional and experiential filters.
I deeply appreciate your kind words of encouragement and support.
Many thanks,
These are by far the best books I’ve read or listened to in many years. I’m always invested in your characters because of the quality of your artistry. A beautiful combination of character, plot and theme driven. It’s so easy to be immersed in the story and characters when you craft them with such depth, putting them into situations that force them to grow or fade or both at the same time. The journey is as important as the destination. We are born from each.
Thank you so much for allowing me to experience so many things through your crafting. A great book allows you to grow and learn with the people you journey with through the story. I truly appreciate where you take us.
I’m deeply honored, Richard. I agree that we can grow personally through the process of a character’s struggle. I’m so happy to know that you’re finding some truth within my series, and I appreciate your journeying with me and all of the cast of Alorin. Thank you for reading.
I feel awful!
My original commentary was about a different version of the book than exists today. Isabel, her intent, reason, choice- agency was less clearly defined then.
Watching this conversation over the last few years has been interesting.
Thing is, good stories are like beach balls….what color you see depends on which side of the ball you are looking at it from, your existing perspective.
Point 1 is one that can’t be overstated. I hated the Fitz/Molly/Burrich (Pelas/Isabel) storyline with a passion but had to remember they were fictional characters.
Point 2 Depending on your perspective, Pelas could have created a work of art on Isabel A gift or marked her much like the cattle. I’m not saying either opinion is right or wrong, only that in the details (an knowledge of reasoning known at the time) it’s reasonable for someone to take either view…or neither.
Point 5.
I disagree. The choices people you love, (Husband, Wife, Children) make can and do have a impact, a betrayal would/could diminish your vigor or spirit. (see emasculation) That’s not being a victim, it’s being human. What makes you a victim or not is how you choose to respond to your feelings, not having had them. The perfect being would never feel fear, insecurity, anger…etc…etc. but perfect people wouldn’t provide much of a conflict/story.
I’m rambling, the point, both the praise and criticism is valid and accurate. Isabel portrayal in this situation was illuminated and transcendent or a sadly common method of female problem solving in fiction. Ean is a small, selfish, petty victim or righteous. Pelas was an innocent victim saved by Isabel or etc… What folks brought to the situation is what they took out. There is no neat, right or wrong answer, especially until readers learn more later.
Personally, to move on and enjoy the series I had to move past the details. I finally came to what I felt was a simple, honest construct.
Isabel decided a committed and “free” Pelas was worth any cost. Their interaction was the most expedient way to accomplish that imperative.
That view changed my view of Isabel from admiration to a much more pragmatic one (mirroring her own) but also let me enjoy the continuation of this excellent story.
Happy Holidays … M
Bill
I love your take on things, Bill. It perfectly illustrates my ultimate objective for this scene, which is the hope that people will at least think about it. I don’t feel there’s really a right or wrong answer to the conflict. That’s the whole point of writing a conflict that is an ethical right and a moral wrong. It’s never going to sit well. It doesn’t lie still. It requires inspection. Thank you, as always, for your rational elucidation.
I have to admit, the scene was difficult. My logical side completely understood, but my emotional side balked. Overall though, I feel that it did just what it needed to do …. it made me uncomfortable enough to truly examine the situation, and to address the questions it posed within myself.
It also made Isabel, in some way I cannot define, more ‘human’ … until this point, I saw her, within my own mind, as too perfect – – this made her more relatable as a woman, not as some untouchable goddess figure. I’m not sure I’m conveying my point as well as I might, but …..
Thank you for having the integrity to write this scene, and to not shy away from exploring ideas that make us truly THINK about what we believe and why we believe it.
I appreciate hearing your experience, Lauri. Thank you for sharing that with me. It’s interesting…some people come away feeling exactly as you do – that Isabel seems more human. Others have expressed finding Christian parallels along the lines of personal sacrifice for the greater good. To me, this just shows that the scenes ultimately are sparking thought, as you mentioned, and that makes all of it worthwhile to me.
I think it was perfectly fine of you to write it as you did. Sex is a very powerful thing, it is strongest form of physical love making and is cherished to a lot of peopl. It makes sense that that would be a way to break such a strong compulsion. The whole Ean getting over it thing took a bit longer than I had hoped but it was good in the end. I am not much one for looking to deeply into things though. So nothing really hit me as strange when listening to this part. It fit in very well. Isabel made her choice for the game as Ean would, simple as that.
Thank you for sharing your viewpoint with me on this, Jeremy. I’m very glad to know that it made sense to you. Thank you for listening.
I was devastated when I read this part of the story. Good. If I’m emotionally invested enough in the characters of a story to be upset, then you’ve done your job well. And Melissa, you’ve done your job so well – I can’t even describe how wonderful this series is! This story isn’t comprised of isolated chapters that can be plucked and fairly examined out of context – it has direction and energy that is fueled
by the tension created by situations like this.
Also, thank you for the names you gave to the dragons/malorinathgul, and for Finlar’s versions of them. They are super fun to say, though my wife gives me looks when I walk around saying, “ Dhábu’balaji’şridanaí“.
LOL, Chris. I can only imagine the look on your wife’s face. 😉
I appreciate knowing how the scene with Isabel and Pelas impacted you, and your subsequent thoughts on it. It has been a controversial scene since day one, and while I feel badly about the effect created on some who were very hard hit by the scene and had difficulty getting past it, I wouldn’t change it. It’s a critical part of Ean and Isabel’s journey, not to mention Pelas’s.
I always appreciate knowing when my readers are able to understand or at least see some part of my own view on why this happened. Thank you for writing to me about it, and thank you for reading.
Didn’t see anything wrong with the scenes, though I did think Ean took it too hard. Did he forget that he was “married” to a prophetess? Did he think she couldn’t foresee the ramifications of the decision she made and didn’t he trust that it was the best decision?
Keep doing what you do. This is quite a compelling series.
I’m so glad to know you’re enjoying it, Will. It’s very interesting the broad spectrum of reactions that readers have to this scene. I always appreciate hearing when you seem to be on the same page with Isabel. 🙂
I find your whole approach on sex and sexuality to be rather interesting. Some subjects other authors shy from you treat with seeming nonchalance. At the same time your story doesn’t devolve into the lurid details. It’s very well done and I wonder sometimes if you are intentional in that regard.
That’s a very interesting perspective, Will. I guess to some degree your statement about nonchalance is probably true, in that some things/ideas are not as important to me as they may be to others. In terms of my sex scenes, thank you! I only want to give enough details to make the scene seem real to my readers. I’m definitely not trying to write a romance. 😉
I am completely shocked that you even needed to write this! I read the scene as a sacrifice she made to save someone who desperately wanted to be saved. If she hadn’t done it, he would have killed her. She took something horrible and turned it around not just to save her life (as in simply submitting) but to save two lives by making it her choice. I felt very much that it was her choice, and that was almost empowering.
I had a hard time with Ean’s reaction. He left her alone for 300 years for the game, and she endured the agony of it without blame. But he couldn’t do the same. What did he expect her to do, just die to stay faithful? That was her only other option. Judging from the reactions you got from some fragile male egos, apparently a lot of men don’t feel the same. They’d rather women sacrifice their lives to maintain their vaginal integrity. That is where 100% of our worth lies to them, and consequently their worth as well. That really disgusts me.
I thought it was very well thought out and just as well written.
I say bah! I mean bah to those too immature or otherwise close-minded to appreciate that scene. To me, it was incredible. So very thought-provoking. So challenging. As I tell my kids, sometimes none of your choices are good. In those times, you must be able to what *you* believe is right, regardless of how that affects others.
The scenario was difficult. Tough to read, emotionally painful, but riveting, and memorable.
Please do not change anything about your style. Not that you would, but I want to reiterate that many of us understand and appreciate it.
That pivotal scene has long-term effects on the pattern that ean finally begins to realize in the sixth strand.
Thank you, Joe. It is always encouraging to hear from readers who understand this scene, it’s allegorical meaning and its critical importance to those characters’ paths overall. We are all impacted greatly by the choices we find the hardest in our lives. Personally, I wouldn’t go back and change any of mine. I know Isabel feels the same.
I am sorry that people said the things they said to you, but that is a good thing. Wait let me explain. Good stories are ones we dive into, we live, we hate characters, we love characters. I took a Russian Literature in English in college. This is important because exactly why people attacked you what the effect that the Russian writers of the time did. I remember reading one of the books at an group type of meeting. I always carry a book and always read if I am not engaged. I vividly remember taking the book and throwing it across the room much to the shock of the people in it. The character in the book made you hate him and I mean loath him. The book is a small one called A Hero of our time by Mikail Lermentov. When I explained my reaction in class my teacher said to me, now you get it. That is what they wanted they wanted you to feel the characters to hate them to love them. And you my darling have just done that and you should be proud!! To have people outraged by your writing you have achieved something that very few authors do. You took the reader sucked them in made them live in your word, that is talent. Most people do not understand what you did. I saw no objection but I was floating through life at the time and had very little that effect me. For me that scene was when someone was coming for help. But you did good remember that!!
Thank you so much, Kelli. It’s always important to be reminded of the art beneath the storytelling. I truly appreciate your kind words, as well as the reminder.
Still reading book 3 and read this scene last night. I had a “wait… what?” moment and had a reaction very similar to Bill above and put the book down for the night. I’ll pick it up again later this week, probably.
The interesting thing about this series is it’s “grittier” than the Wheel of Time type series’ I have read in the past. The neverending sexual tension in the Sword of Truth or WOT became annoying as the books progressed and detracted from my enjoyment of the series. Now last night I found myself reacting negatively and strongly to the very thing I “missed” in Sword of Truth… not that I missed rape or infidelity but I missed the adult treatment of those same topics.
So then why did I have such a negative reaction to the scene in general? I’m still thinking about this and chewing on the direction the series just took. It definitely made the series darker for me, but Bill’s comment above really nails it for me: “Personally, to move on and enjoy the series I had to move past the details. I finally came to what I felt was a simple, honest construct.
Isabel decided a committed and “free” Pelas was worth any cost. ”
I will look forward to continuing the series. I can only imagine how an immature Ean will react going forward.
I appreciate your perspective on this, Jeff. It’s such an interesting story thread for me, because sex as punishment, sex as domination, sex as manipulation and sex as a weapon are all analogous to Isabel’s (correlated with Trell’s) thread. When you layer on top of those topics a sense of betrayal, it’s potent. It was not my intention to shock people with these scenes, believe it or not. I just wanted us to explore the ideas of the ethical right and the moral wrong. And I wanted to raise the question of what fidelity means within a different moral context. Because morality is a code of conduct based on the survival experience of a group, and Isabel’s moral code may not be the same as Ean’s. She also has a completely different concept of her mortal shell.
So…I wasn’t trying to say one is right or wrong, only hoping that the scenes encourage people to look at these areas with a new lens.
And just so you know, this is the darkest we go. After this, there is light ahead.
i think my brain must work differently to others I found the torture much more horrifying then the consensual sex. So much so, that I found myself completely baffled by Ean’s response I could not relate at all. I simply don’t see the problem, sex and love are often bed mates, but they don’t always have to be.
That’s very interesting, Christopher. I feel that one of the philosophical values of this scene, if I may be so bold as to say there is one without sounding arrogant, is that we have so many varied responses to it. At the very least, I hope it invites inspection, perhaps introspection, and evaluation of the aspects that we find necessary and those we find unsettling or disturbing. I obviously had many reasons for writing this story thread, but my underlying hope would that my readers would have an opinion one way or another and perhaps talk about it with others.
All I felt was amazed at your ability to write so many complex characters. The book is like a multifaceted jewel that you can view from many angles. As a lifestock farmer I have had to make many decisions that were hard but important in the bigger picture, I have also decided NOT to have a permanent relationship with another because they have always interfered with my bigger picture so I didn’t fine it that hard to relate to Isabel’s decision for Pelas.
But I can’t help but hope that the next book (4) isn’t so much about Tanis.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this part of the story, Louise. I’m glad to know you were able to relate to Isabel. It’s a tough situation, to be sure. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on book four. Thank you for reading.
For those who are so up in arms about Isabel’s “betrayal” I want to point out that Isabel’s experience wasn’t exactly pleasant for her. She didn’t give her heart to Pelas. If anything, it was a hollow and perfunctory experience. True betrayal doesn’t happen at a physical level. Does it hurt? Yes, because we want exclusive physical interaction, but emotional betrayal is real betrayal. Laying there to let someone else “ work out” their issues isn’t exactly a sign of someone being callous or unfeeling when they seek out physical pleasure because their mate isn’t enough or because they have a sense of entitlement to experience more… have more. Isabel was regretting everything before it even happened and she bravely walked her path knowing all the negative consequences. She had guilt and remorse which is an indication of her deep real self and the only betrayal I see is the judgement set upon her despite the pain and danger she was willing to endure to hopefully save the world. Anyone who doesn’t understand this isn’t looking at the story as a whole. What about the 300+ years her brother spent separated from the woman he lived? That was a heartbreaking betrayal to Alshiba. But everyone gets that. This is no different. The sacrifices made by so many throughout the story includes betraying loved ones and sacrificing happiness for the greater good.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts, Annette. It was a terrible situation no matter which direction we looked into it from. My only hope is that there comes a point when everyone involved can look back and say unequivocally, “that was the right thing to do.”
Please don’t bother about people reacting in negative ways. It is your story to tell, and I think it is great!
I am currently listening to book 4 and it is truly great! Looking forward to see where the story takes me. Thank you!
I appreciate that, Shervin. Every reader definitely has their own experience with the story. All I can do is keep telling it. 🙂
It is strange to me that people had an issue with the scene. Life isn’t nice and a compelling story must be true to life.
However I do have a point on the emasculation subject. Emasculation isn’t a personal point of view but societal. Within male society men frequently view other men with respect or contempt by what they are willing to “put up with” or what they condemn women for, especially women they have relationships with. I lost respect for the Ean character because he placed blame where blame could not be placed so in this sense you did emasculate him. That is okay though, characters without flaws aren’t compelling.
That’s a very interesting perspective! Thank you for sharing this with me. And I agree – perfect people don’t make for compelling stories. Thank you for reading.